Frequently Asked Questions

Answer:
The process of filing for custody or parenting time (also called visitation) varies by state, but the basic steps typically include:

✅ Step 1: File a Petition for Custody or Parenting Time at your local family court. This may require forms such as:

• Petition for Allocation of Parental Responsibilities (in Illinois)
• Child Custody Application (varies by state)
   

✅ Step 2: Serve the other parent with notice of your filing, usually via a court-authorized server.

✅ Step 3: Attend mediation (if required by your county) and court hearings.

✅ Step 4: Prepare to show:

• Your involvement in the child's life (school records, photos, call logs)
• Stability (housing, employment, support system)
• Any history of the other parent obstructing visitation

Answer:
Not being able to afford legal representation should not stop you from fighting for your child. There are several affordable or free resources you can access:

🔹 Legal Aid Services: Many counties offer pro bono (free) legal help for low-income parents.
🔹 Family Law Clinics: Law schools and nonprofits often offer legal clinics for custody cases.
🔹 Self-Help Legal Centers: Most family courts have assistance programs with step-by-step guidance.

👥 Fathers of Faith Inc. can connect you with local legal aid organizations and trusted father-friendly attorneys in your area.

Answer:
Unmarried fathers do have parental rights, but you may need to legally establish paternity before pursuing custody or parenting time.

Here’s how it generally works:

🔹 If your name is on the birth certificate: This is a good start, but it may not be enough. You may still need a legal paternity acknowledgment.
🔹 If you’re not listed on the birth certificate: You’ll need to file for paternity in court and may need a DNA test.
🔹 After paternity is established: You can petition for custody, parenting time, and decision-making rights (medical, school, religious upbringing, etc.).

⚖️ Many states do not automatically grant fathers rights, even if involved in the child’s life, unless paternity is formally acknowledged.